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fleetsparrow
fleetsparrow...every bird has them.
I don't know if this is so much a fandom opinion as much as a fandom practice, but if my [redacted] years online have taught me anything, it's that I really do not have the energy to spend gleefully hating on things. Even if it sucks. Even if it's factually wrong. If it's in any way within my control to avoid seeing a terrible hot take or avoid a fandom, I'll do it. So long as no one's being hurt where it's within my power to help, I just do not have the spoons.
That does not mean I won't ever go into a group chat and have a good laugh at such things. I ain't perfect. But there is a certain level of ire and rage that I just no longer have the energy to expend by engaging with the willfully obtuse.
That said, I also no longer have the patience to be nice about certain behaviors. You don't get to come uninvited into my house and then complain about the decorations. It's my house.
I don't know if this is so much a fandom opinion as much as a fandom practice, but if my [redacted] years online have taught me anything, it's that I really do not have the energy to spend gleefully hating on things. Even if it sucks. Even if it's factually wrong. If it's in any way within my control to avoid seeing a terrible hot take or avoid a fandom, I'll do it. So long as no one's being hurt where it's within my power to help, I just do not have the spoons.
That does not mean I won't ever go into a group chat and have a good laugh at such things. I ain't perfect. But there is a certain level of ire and rage that I just no longer have the energy to expend by engaging with the willfully obtuse.
That said, I also no longer have the patience to be nice about certain behaviors. You don't get to come uninvited into my house and then complain about the decorations. It's my house.
